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writes:Of late, when I masturbate, while watching straight porn, then gay thoughts also come into my mind which makes me confused and tense and don't feeling like enjoying it. Does it mean I am gay or bi-sexual or straight? or it happens with everyone while being in a flow? I always fascinated by having relationship with girl and in fact had girlfriend but she dumped me two years back for my poor financial position. Since it was LDR, we just had phone sex. I am 33 right now but I haven't gotten opportunity to even kiss a girl. I would appreciate if you guys could help me on this.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (17 November 2011):
 It would be very unusual to not have wandering fantasy as part of the self excitation process since it is auto-sexual in nature. don' think about it, enjoy yourself.
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reader, person12345  +, writes (17 November 2011):
 Porn doesn't really say anything about your sexual orientation, but what you actively fantasize about does. When you masturbate without porn, does it turn you on more to think about men?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 November 2011): Help on how to kiss a girl?Its apparent you are lonely and seek companionship that maybe, possibly you are not starting to fantasize about men? But if its just strictly sexual, I'd say stick to that line drawn in the sand that you are a Straight Male.I imagine pornography is a past time pursuit and that you indulge in such a practice to better get you aroused so you can then ejaculate. Which to some, this is considered 'normal' and 'everyone' does it. Not everyone does it mind you. Not everyone needs it. Some people have very rich, creative minds.I think you are confusing love and companionship with lust and getting off. They are indeed two separate matters.If you cant change your world, change yourself. Meaning, what can you do to help yourself? What are your options?Is there a way you can move to a better place, that has a better paying job? Can you get further education? Have you thought about immigrating somewhere where you can get a better education, job and up chances of finding a woman?Time to problem solve.
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