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writes: I have recently fallen for one of my male friends ... I met him about a year ago and at the time he had a girlfriend and was flirting with me big time at a party. He then chatted to me on messenger saying how if he didnt have a girlfriend that he'd want me in the physical sense but i just ignored it as i was pissed off that it was 'hyperthetical'. However time went by and he got engaged to that girl and we remained in contact and i have been going to his and he's come to mine for night in with dvd, and going out and about. still flirting but just friends as i wouldnt 'go there' with him still having a girlfriend. His engagement has since gone off, and on and off! I recently start to fall for him and so pleased that his engagement is off even though he wishes it was on as his ego has been bruised and he admits he has 'turned into a pussy with her', the girl blatantly doesnt love him enough. I want him!!!! How do i play it now? Do i keep the friendship and flirting and just wait to see what happens? WHAT SHOULD I DO, IM CRAZY about him and we geton sooo well and i fancy him so much.
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reader, rhythmandblues2  + ♥, writes (6 November 2006):
 Get in there right away if you want to be his rebound relationship and get bounced off the bed when he wakes up, or take it a bit slow and flirt some more and continue to date other men until he decides to make his move....if he just broke and on again off again engagement, he needs time to heal from that relationship before getting romantically involved with you, unless you just want a fling with him, that is up to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2006): i would go 4it girl u only have 1 life. can this guy make u happy? just be carefull and dont give ur heart away too soon.be happy and make the right choices. just make sure he feels the same way about u if he is ur friend then u know him best . go 4it girl be happy and positive xxxxxx
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