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I have a woman now who wants to be with me but my heart is still hurting over my ex

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Question - (13 February 2016) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 February 2016)
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

Why, does this happen, our time together I thought was, amazing, never argued, then, she was gone, no good byes, am OK, that it's over, but why not, be decent, about it, I didn't do nothing wrong, yes I came on strong, but only got to see her, once a week, why couldn't she say good bye, I don't try to make a woman stay with me, if she doesn't want to, its there choice, I don't ever, call them, or tex them, I just move on, so my question is, why not be decent, and say good bye, I never even said the word love to her, complete strangers, would come up to us, an say we looked so in love, just me again, I have a woman, now that wants to be with me all the time, but the feelings are not there, my heart, is still, hurting

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A female reader, B21016 United States +, writes (14 February 2016):

U have no control over other people's reactions! The only way to forget the pains of the past is to give today a chance.. Be with the new girl.. let her love you.. May be her love might also heal u..

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A female reader, Tisha-1 United States +, writes (14 February 2016):

Tisha-1 agony auntYou say that you have a woman who wants to be with you all the time? Well, then treat her right. And that means, don't lead her on.

As for the ex and how she treated you... well, she wasn't the best choice for you, despite your earnest wishes to the contrary.

You say you just move on but the questions you post indicate otherwise.

P.S. be very clear to the new woman that your heart isn't available for her, right now, so she's not waiting around for you.

And to go back to why a woman might blank you or ghost you. The answer is that you might be too intense for her. And that's scary, not in a nice way.

So are you seeing someone new? Are you going to be able to let the past go or not?

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