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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi there, hope somebody can help me with this. I have a really bad issue with trust and im finding its starting to destroy my life and confidence etc. I am making myself worse lately because I have a new boyfriend, this guy is very fit, good looking and works the doors at a very lively pub which is well known for being the place to get some action. I am convincing myself all the time that he is going to cheat on me etc and im getting to the stage now that I keep thinking should I just end the relationship so he cannot hurt me. The thing is he has not done anything at the moment to make me not trust him but because people constantly make comments that door staff are tarts they sleep around (which he has in the past) im convinced that he cannot be faithful to the one woman. I have not been with him all that long and he was working the doors when we met but this relationship will not survive unless things (me) change. Thank you in anticipation xx
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reader, hails +, writes (21 February 2007):
 many people have a problem with trust as its a very big thing, maybe your scared of trusting him as that means lettin your guard down and your worried about gettin hurt, but if you dont let that guard down and let him in and learn to trust him then the relationship wont survive as trust is the main part of a relationship but if your convinced hes goin to be unfaithful then thats not a great start,you never know you may be the only person he needs. you maybe the one that stops him cheating
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