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I have a crush on her. How do I tell her without ruining the friendship?

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Question - (15 July 2014) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 October 2014)
A male South Africa age 30-35, *989mrz writes:

hi am 25 theres is a woman who is 30 she sent me a friend request on facebook so i acceptd without knowin her. we both speak the same language. at first i thought myb i know her bt i realisd we dont know each other,so she stays next to my town its a 20mins away frm my home bt now we both at diffrent towns,so we txt on fb. the converse was gr8 then i ended askin her do u realy know me and she said no,bt replied she added me by mistake n coz of my profile picture was so gr8.

then i askd her to giv me her numbers she giv it to me so that we cn chat on whatsapp ,so on whatsapp we do chat evryday evn to this day ,she askd me about my age of which i told he she ended sayin am young bt i cn be her friend,bt we talkd about evrythn i almost know much about her n i let her know about me,one day we wer txtin about sex issues she ended up askin me to send her a pic of my dick of wich i refused coz i aksd her if she cn send me her nude pic.

she has two kids 4 n 6 boy and girl she is single,my problem is alwys when she came accros difficulty situations in her life like if someone propose herwhat cn she do,she rejectd many guys without a valid reason am we been chatin for almost 5months now am realy confused she even call me when she is bored we talk bt i hv a crush on her i dnt know how to tell her without ruining our friend ship i will thankful for your help

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A male reader, 1989mrz South Africa +, writes (4 October 2014):

1989mrz is verified as being by the original poster of the question

1989mrz agony auntThanx to evryone who took their time and answer my question

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (18 July 2014):

aunt honesty agony auntLets be honest here, you do not want a friendship with this woman, you have a crush on her you want more, so a friendship is never going to be enough for you.

The best thing that you can do is to tell her how you feel. Be honest with her, she deserves to know the truth and at least you are being honest with yourself. If she does not feel the same way then it is probably best that this friendship ends as it will only end in you being heart broken.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 July 2014):

The first question that I think needs answering is could you be a step-father to her kids? Do you WANT to be a step-father in a year (for example)? If you think you'd be too young (understandable) or wouldn't want to raise someone else's children, don't tell her and move on.

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