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22-25,
*ShyShyGirlyx
writes:Dear CupidHey I'm 15 years old and still in high school and I have boy troubles. I have a crush on this boy (let's call him G) and I never felt this way about a guy before, because all the other guys in my school are jerks!The weird thing is that he came to my school in year 8 and I keep seeing him and feel normal but in year 10 and 11 I felt different. He was different to most guys but he always seems to ignore me even through we always see each other in class. I only told one friend about my crush but my other friend knew I liked him by the way I look at him.I do not want this crush to get out of hand and take over my life because of exams and stuff....but the worst of it is that my other guy friend (lets call him R) and my BFF was talking about that every girl he is good friends with falls for him (R)-except meBut I have some strange feelings that I kinda respect him more because I am always nice to him in maths and once when he uploaded himself singing I got the urge to get him noticed by famous people.I don't want him to know this at all....because it will cause drama with the friendship between us, we ain't close but ok buds So I have 2 crushes? But I wanted none!!! Please help me sort this mess out I just don't know what to do and if I tell my friends they would just laugh...and I will go red!!I'm not sure if G likes me back but I think he doesn't and R is just my mate...How can I sort this out, or get over them?!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2014): Nothing to worry about, it's just growing up, as DragonMan said. Your thoughts are just playing around. Now for the exam thing. If the c{shes do get out of hand, take some lavender or pollen, and rub it on your rist, or just take it with you, and sniff it so you don't lose concentration. Thats what i do. It's what i do all the time.
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reader, DragonMan +, writes (20 February 2014):
 Greetings,You, my dear lady, are facing a fairly common problem with youth growing up called puberty. You will naturally start to develop feelings for others at this time despite what you may or may not want.You say you have these crushes but don't want them so it is simply a matter of will power. You either need to let go and embrace these feelings as normal or you need to exercise control and work on ways of distancing yourself from them so you can establish control of your emotions.
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