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writes: Dont no what to do me and my boyfriend were in love and happy but then i started to have my doubts for no apparent reason he didnt do anything wrong anyway I told him how i felt and he said we shouldnt go out anymore if i was feeling like this we ended up breaking up but said we would remain good friends because we get along so well, now weve been broken up for 2 weeks and he's already getting together with someone else i really miss him and want him back but i cant do anything about it what shall i do, is it to late? PLEASE HELP!!
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (1 October 2006):
 well everybody has doubts about things some are silly! but if he finished with you because of that then he couldnt of liked you that much as if he did he would of gone throught he rough and the smooth with you! on top of that you actually had the guts to tell him! i have been so insecure with my man that weve had major arguements and we pulled through every one of them i put it down to the fact that he loves me thats why hes stuck with me! let him move on and remain good freinds with him youll miss him of course but that miss does fade away! but not everything last for ever so when he finishes with his girlfreind maybe giveing it a try then but be aware there isnt exactly a time to wait it may take ages i mean 2 or 3years or even over so could you wait that long to try?
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reader, Toria +, writes (1 October 2006):
 He broke up with you just over the fact you was feeling a little bit insecure in the relationship??? which we all feel at some point in a relationship for whatever reason and if he really wanted to be with you and love and respect you he would firstly be there for you and reassure you when your feeling a little insecure and secondly he wouldn't already be moving on with someone else.
I think you need to try to move on from him and realise that if it was mean't to be you would still be with him now.
Good luck :o)
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reader, camille +, writes (1 October 2006):
 I'm not sure what it was that ignited your initial feelings of doubt, but it may be wise to have a think about that and see if you can work it out. If you were acting on instincts, sometimes they can be right. The gut feeling is a good one to follow in my experience. If he was so easy to suggest you split up as a result of those feelings, maybe that was the right decision for you both. Also make sure you're not feeling so sad because you know he's with someone else. Our egos can get the better of us sometimes. If you've got strong feelings for him, staying friends may be impossible, (his new girlfriend may not like it either), but don't worry, whatever happens, you'll come through the other side.
As you get on so well, maybe the friendship is the main reason you got together, but it does sound like that's all your relationship is now. Treasue that if it's worth it, but if you think he feels more than that, tell him you do. If you're wrong and he doesn't feel the same, that may ruin the friendship and obviously as he's with someone else, it could be seen as inappropriate. That's your call, the alternative is to see how it goes. You may feel differently soon. Or his new relationship may not work out and then you can re-assess what to do.
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