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writes:This is so wrong but you'd have to understand my state of mind before you judge me.My boyfriend dumped me because he needed space and I had a feeling he might have been seeing someone else. He promised me a thousand times he wasn't but I had a little evidence to show he may have. Stupidly, I hacked into his email and tried to find out. He went crazy and said that if he finds out who it was he'll kill them. My email was hacked into too (unrelated) so I told him it might have been this guy who liked me, which I totally made up. Now he thinks it was this guy. (who doesn't exist by the way)I feel awful, guilty and stupid. I wish I hadn't done it cos I never found anything out anyway. I was high on emotion at the time.He's regained control of his emails now but I still feel awful. I just wanted to know if I should wait on him, cos if he had someone else I'd have to move on. I should never have done it, and it was TOTALLY out of character.Advice? please, I know it was wrong.
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reader, AskEve + ♥, writes (20 February 2008):
 I would forget about the email scenario altogether, put it behind you now and just give him the space he needs. Hopefully, once he's had time to sort his mind out (and hopefully miss you), he'll come back.
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reader, LouLee +, writes (20 February 2008):
 You're right, it was wrong. If you still like him then i'm sorry but he's not the one for you as you shouldn't have felt the need to distrust him.I suggest that you don't tell him now, as he's probably just gonna get really angry then shrug it over.I guess it's just one of these things you're gonna have to get over, but please, no more lies eh? x
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