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writes: I was going out with a guy for a few months and i really liked him a lot. he was different from most guys.I don't think he knew how much i liked him!He bought me flowers always complimenting me, telling all his mates bout me.He came across as liking me too said he'd never felt the way he did about anyone as he did me!I am quite a paranoid person so i do look for signs of being dumped etc cos its happened to me in past.So i did see a few signs like too busy watching a film to come see me, hardly seeing him once when he took me to party.So the paranoia took better of me and i text him saying maybe we shouldn't of started going out and maybe we should be mates cos i was getting mixed signals from him.I said i do really like him and what did he think.Well i haven't heard from him since thats been bout 2months now!!I text him once since then to say i still had a few of his cds at mine but still nothing.Was i overreacting?Why won't he even pop round for his cds?He lives v close to me and it is horrible. i still look out for him when i'm out and about i could bump into him at any time.It isn't really getting any better i still think bout him lots. i never wanted it to end.I thought i saw him other day with a female but i was wrong but it made me feel upset.What can i do?I have no idea what he thinks bout the whole thing or why it even came to this?Please Help?
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reader, Middy7 +, writes (25 May 2005):
ok, chill sweety, you sent him plenty of mixed messages yourself, and he probably just wants to seperate himself from the whole situation, depending on whether you smothered him, or how things ended. Maybe you can salvage a friendship but you gotta chill out focus yourself on you. Get out and do things that make you happy. Don't worry about the bum, chance are he's not worried about you or he would have called to see what was wrong when you text messaged him.
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reader, AngelGurl +, writes (25 May 2005):
Ok You Need To Do Some Serious Thinking Do You Still Love Him? If You Do Then Go Round His house And Sort It Out With Him I'm Sure He Will Understand If You Explain Your Actions & how Youve Been Let Down In The Past Go For It. You Might Get Back With Him. You Never Know
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