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writes:im 19 my bf is 22 we are going out a year 2moro! we love each other deeply . we were shopping one day in a bookshop and i saw my ex at the till buying a book and we looked at each other and i ran out of the shop. my bf said he was embarrassed that i ran out and he thinks i was embarrassed to be seen with him which is so untrue, i love my bf to bits . i just ran away because i didnt wanna see my ex so i ran out of the shop and panicked. my bf thinks i have feelings for my ex which i certinly do not! i dumped him 3 years ago and i hate him,i havent spoken to him since the breakup. why is my bf so jealous?its really annoying me the way he doesnt trust or believe me because i trust him way more than he trusts me(we both agree on this) . how do i make him trust me?
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reader, Full moon temptress1  +, writes (1 January 2008):
I have no doubt that you love your b/f.However when i read your story i wondered if you still have feelings for your ex.The reason why i say this is the fact that you still hate him, after three years of dumping him.Yes he probally hurt you,but is he worth getting upset about now.Maybe your boyfriend is picking up on something that even you are not aware of.Sometimes we can hide how we feel, even from ourselves.I may be totally wrong with my reply and if i am i'm sorry about that.Its how i felt whilst reading your situation.
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reader, Dr. John  + ♥, writes (1 January 2008):
 The only way he can trust you is if you keep open communication with him.
Tell him what happened. I don't see any reason why he would distrust you for this. Doc
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (1 January 2008):
 Somebody better sedate me before i go postal again.
This might be a shot in the dark but.. have you thought of... of i don;t know.. maybe telling him.. THE TRUTH????
i know its a little left wing.. but you know it just might work.I know us guys are truely amazing creatures to behold but we ain't mind readers darling.
Seriously.
Talk to him. tell him the reasons why..
woemnj have this funny thing of using emotions to figure out a situation where as a guy will be blunt and make a very quick judgemental call about it. they're usually wrong. but its not emotionally based.
Don't ask "why is my bf so jealous?"
you're bf is probably thinking " Where the crap did i put the instruction manual for her"
if you don't tell him he ain't gonna know.
COMMUNICATION PEOPLE!!! you know it makes sence.
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