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I got dumped harshly and am not dealing with it well

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Question - (6 November 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2011)
A male United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

I'm a 14 year old guy who just got dumped.. It was harsh.. It was the morning of a Thursday and she just texted me and said "I thought about some stuff and I think we should just be friends.. I'm sorry." I got so depressed and still am.. I need help getting over her..

Shes my first love, my first kiss, the girl I truly loved. I miss her so much.. I made one mistake.. I went to fast, I should have slowed the relationship down because I made 1 mistake.. I wanted to make out but then realized it was too early.. but it was too late.. I kept bugging her about now.. and now I'm alone.. I've been with her for a couple months. I met her on the first day of school and put her to my focus because I liked her. Now I can't get rid of her in my mind.. deep down I still want her..

I told her "maybe someday we can be together again" and she said "its better if we just stay friends forever..."

That was just yesterday too..

I'm so depressed and heartbroken.

I'm crying so much over her..

She was the love of my life... and I made one mistake, that changed everything..

And she really is the best girl in the school, no one can be more perfect than her..

I really need help.. Please..

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A female reader, hayley-saur United Kingdom +, writes (18 April 2011):

i'm not gonna brag on about "i kno exactly how u feel" and i'm not gonna tell you to get over it either but i know it can kill you inside and how much it hurts..

you just gotta keep looking for someone worth it,this is your first relationship so your gonna have alot more heartbreaks in your life next time just dont take it so fast kay?

plus im a 13 yr old girl,i kno about this stuff lol /3

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A female reader, hayley-saur United Kingdom +, writes (18 April 2011):

i'm not gonna brag on about "i kno exactly how u feel" and i'm not gonna tell you to get over it either but i know it can kill you inside and how much it hurts..

you just gotta keep looking for someone worth it,this is your first relationship so your gonna have alot more heartbreaks in your life next time just dont take it so fast kay?

plus im a 13 yr old girl,i kno about this stuff lol /3

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2010):

Yeah, well I see her everyday at school, how do I just stop getting her off my mind?

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (7 November 2010):

tennisstar88 agony auntIt's not the end of the world! We all get dumped at one point in our life, some several time. Even faced rejection, everyone goes through it. So she dumped you in text, kinda bad but could you handle if she told you to your face?

She's you first love, but she's not your last..Another girl will come along and you'll put her in the back of your mind.

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