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writes:Hiam i normal, i find that i get realy turned on by the thought of my wife with another guy. she like to talk dirty about other guys when we have sex. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008): Dear Poster,
I'll start keeping score for you, if your starting to get confused.
Two normals, one slight abnormal, and one neither normal or abnormal......
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reader, Susan Strict  +, writes (5 June 2008):
 It's not normal. It's not abnormal.
It's one of those things that some people fantasise about. Most men, I think, find the thought of their wife or partner being with someone else distasteful to say the least, but if it's a fantasy that does it for you then enjoy imagining it. You won't be the only one with that fantasy (there are a number of erotic web sites on that subject - I just checked).
I would suggest keeping it as what it is - a fantasy. The reality could lead to all sorts of relationship problems.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008): umm. I guess it's sort of better to know my bf thinks about me with another guy rather than to know he dreams about himself with another girl...
But in reality, in my experience anyway, I don't believe most guys can even fathom the thought of their girl's with another man. Most of my BF's don't ask and if the subject comes up they DO NOT want to know about me with other men. Most men I have been with do not want to know or even think about it.
Don't mean to be rude...just asking a question...but do you have "bisexual" tendencies perhaps?
I guess its possible that in your mind the "safest" way to dream about another man is to imagine him with your wife...its just a suggestion...something to think about...
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 June 2008): Normal. You have a very good sex life and an open minded and loving wife.
Keep it in fantasy though, the reality is not as exciting and can lead to heartbreak, jealousy and divorce.
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