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writes:Everything's great until I ask her out and she morphs into someone completely different. I'm very confused.We chat, laugh...the usual. She's very friendly, nice and talkative. We're picking a restaurant with friends and in passing she tells me she likes sushi but we end up going somewhere else.She gives me very very clear signs. I ask her out.I take her to a Japanese restaurant and she tells me that she doesn't eat anything raw. Me: "Do you understand why I am confused? :)" Her: "Ummm....yea :)" The details don't matter. The night goes on and she's no longer the nice, friendly or interesting girl I thought I knew. She's in fact very different - cold and indifferent. I left frustrated and confused.How can things change so dramtically? After the head fog cleared somewhat (My buddies were telling me that she might have been lying before to attract me) I decide to risk it and ask to see her again. We meet up and again the same thing happened. Where's the girl I knew before??? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIt was a bad night and after all that frustration I did decide to give it another shot but that encounter turned me off all the more.
I'm not sure a third time would be the best thing. I'm really not thinking about this girl anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2007): I understand, she probably was lying or ( I am a girl so i know) she got more nervous as the night went on. Give her 1 more try an see how it goes. BEST WISHES
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (23 February 2007):
 I think this girl has got a bit of a Jeckel & Hyde personality. She made all the right noises to try and entice you. And entice you she did, i think once she knew she had you she diden't want to know and became the confusing girl you witnessed in the Sushi resturant. If that wasen't enough you took her out again, and once more she played up.
I would most certainly drop her and move on.
Good luck
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (23 February 2007):
 You don't say how old you and your "friend" are but I'll assume you are both fairly young. Maybe she's uncomfortable in one on one situations and feels more at home in a group. Maybe she likes a free meal, but she's not that into you. Maybe she has a split personality and/or she's just plain weird. Who knows? In any event, I'd say you need to move on.
Good luck!
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