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writes: My ex partner of 17 years decided to leave without any explanation. I tried to get closure but didn't get any joy. I found out after turning up at her work place that she had moved on with someone else. When her new boyfriend turned up to pick her up in her car. This all happened in a space of a couple of weeks. She hasn't made any contact since and its been well over a few months now. Would this be a sign of a person cheating and has to much guilt to face me? Reply to this Question
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reader, Cateyes  +, writes (25 March 2007):
 It certainly sounds as if she may have been seeing someone else I am sorry to say. I know how we all want and desire to have that closure, especially when we really are in love with someone, but sometimes, it's not meant to be for us to have or find out. And when it's not, we should just try our best to move on without it. I know we try so hard to find out the reasons of "why", but even if you did, would it matter now? Let her live with her own guilt and you move on to find that special someone that you can love again and who will love you the way you should. Even though it may be hard, forgive her for what she has done, it will help you to become stronger and a much better person than you already are. Best of Luck to you!
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reader, ChiRaven +, writes (25 March 2007):
 That'd sure be my guess. It's a harsh way to go, but there's not a whole heck of a lot you can do about it once she's made her choice. Wish her well in your heart (I know, it's tough, but you felt something for this woman for a long time, and you'll feel better if you do that) and move on yourself. By the way, FYI there's a "tipping point" at about age 45 or so in dating. Before that, the "market power" mostly belongs to the women. After that, it shifts to the men. Hang in there ... you're going to be in big demand as an eligible guy in that age range real soon now.
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