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writes:Hi Readers,I've got 2 Questions on my mind so I'll start with one of them...Right I've been with my Girlfriend for couple of months now, did break up and we got back together after 2 years of being together. We have started to have sex about once a week now, It started fine and great, now I find it really hard to cum...I'm perfectly fine when I do it myself, Is there something wrong with me or is it just worry -(Might be linked with Q2). I feel like I'm letting my GF down and I feel foolish for some reason because I wont cum :/.Right my Second question is...I'm really upset and cold about one thing which is really bothering me about my GF. During our break up we both had partners that we both had sexual intercorse with. I came off good she came off bad, meaning by that is that she is pregnant now. I really don't know how to handle this. She will not get rid off it, she's had 2 tests and both came back positive.The thing that is bothering me is that if I want to stay with my GF then I am going to have to stand by her 7/8 months knowing that the baby is not mine. It's eating me inside and my feelings are sooo gloom at the moment. I just feel like a lost person in a big world by myself, not sure what to exspect or what to do. Can you please help Im really emotional stressed at the moment and it's just playing on my mind.Thank you, Means alot for the replys xx
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reader, guillaume + ♥, writes (28 December 2007):
Hi, How did you get on with this?Let us know how things went if you feel happy to. best wishes,G.
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reader, rcn  + ♥, writes (21 December 2007):
 I agree with the other poster. Looking at your age and the way your post was written, you're not ready to take on the responsibility of this, and you really don't have to. All though during the break she had sex, If your intentions were to get back together, she should have been much more careful than she was.
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reader, guillaume + ♥, writes (21 December 2007):
Hi,
I'm very sorry for you. I agree with the previous advice by Frank B Kermit.
WALK AWAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! RED FLAG!!!!!!!!!!!!
You are young, her pregnancy is not your doing.
Personally, I would walk away!!!
best wishes,
G.
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reader, Frank B Kermit  +, writes (21 December 2007):
 Walk away. She is having someone else's kid, and if it bothering you like this now, it is not going to get better. That child deserves the chance to be raised by parents that want it and appreicate it. You are not a candidate.
You broke up for a reason the first time. As soon as you found out about the pregnancy, THAT is your sign to MOVE ON.
SHe needs to focus on raising her child, with the guy that fathered it. You will never be number one to her.
You are young, and need to find someone else that you can build a life with.
Also, if you continue to see her, and are involved with her child, YOU could be liable to pay child support for a kid that is not yours when you break up again.
WALK AWAY. Do not make this your problem.
-Frank B Kermit
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