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writes: So I need boyfriend help. I know I am probably over reacting or over thinking but here we go...I'm 19 and like my boyfriend turned 19 this past tuesday.He lives in Florida and I live in New Jersey but he is planning on moving back up here soon. So the day before his birthday, everything was fine, we talked a lot though I didn't have a lot of power on my cells. Anyways, like I expected, he got wasted. I have no idea who he was with but I trust him not to be an idiot and cheat cause both he and I have been hurt by exs.Anyways, he didn't talk to me all day the next day. I have no idea why. Then today is our 9 month anniversary and he barely texted me and hasn't responded to any of my texts. This makes me overthink and feel uneasy because like I really love this guy. And I know he loves me back, least that's what everyone including him tells me. He sends me cute texts, letters etc..So I need advice or help on what to do or like how I should act to this.Like I do go to a therapist and he knows that but like I haven't been able to go...Please help :/If you do thank you :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks I'll probably end it. I mean he's on probation and I guess I am causing unnecessary stress...thanks
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (9 November 2012):
 Here's the key phrase in your submittal:
"...he loves me back, least that's what everyone including him tells me."
It is SO SIMPLE to say "I love you".... but oh-so-difficult to back it up with the appropriate actions...
YOU have described a guy who is "talking that talk"... but not "walking that walk."
I suggest that you think long and hard about whether or not you are really better off with a guy who will TELL YOU he loves you... or one who SHOWS YOU that he loves you..
Good luck....
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