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male
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41-50,
Philly-Wilts
writes:Hi I am Gay and have been in a relationship for over ten years. I Feel starved of love as my partner is 20 years older than me and a person who cannot really share their feelings Easilty. I dont just want copanionship, I want to be hugged and loved in a physical way. I have told him about this and he says he can't change. Every two or three years I get huge crushes on poeple (yeah I have one now and it hurts like mad cos it wont come true). Can anyone help.
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reader, Philly-Wilts +, writes (11 January 2008):
Philly-Wilts is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks we have talked a lot and are gonna try and find the best rout to going our seperate ways - this will be hard as hell splitting up a home and so on but as has been said I have to nourish my soul.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): I'll just throw this one in.... how would your partner feel if you agreed you could find another partner, all above board, that you could develop this side of a relationship with - i.e. someone else. This may serve to give you the confidence to either leave or maintain the relationship you already have but fulfill your other emotions. You clearly have to face the facts and he has at least been honest with you in saying he can't be emotional or physical. You cannot waste your life - you have so much to give someone and you deserve to receive affection too.
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (11 January 2008):
 He's probably from the old school where being gay was waaaaay in the closet. I agree, he probably cant really change at this point. It basically comes down to you. What are you willing to live with?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 January 2008):
 Your partner cannot change, but you can change.If the situation does not change, there is nothing more you can do about it . Live with it or find a new partner....
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