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male
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:After a very up and down relationship me and my girlfriend broke up and i started seeing someone else. I didn't see my ex at all for a couple of months and didn't really think about her, but recently i seem to keep bumping into her and i've realised i still have feelings for her.i think about her all the time and i think its beginning to make me lose interest in my current relationship. i dont want to upset or hurt my girlfriend but i cant get my ex out of my head. i know that the chances of making anything work with my ex are slim and my current girlfriend is alot better for me but we just dont have the same chemistry as me and my ex girlfriend did.I feel so guilty that all the time I'm with my girlfriend I'm thinking about my ex!
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reader, rhythmandblues2  + ♥, writes (10 July 2007):
 You are on the rebound it seems, you needed to give yourself time to reset your heart from this last relationship, and you are attempting to do that by dating a new girl...you may not be ready for this exclusive relationship, however, and need to really just date several women (not have sex per se, but just date around) and in time you will forget the ex and remember who you are as a person and start looking for a girl very similar to you ex, but with some of the characteristics that you are looking for that she was lacking, or look for similarities in your outlook on life.....you will get there, this rebound relationship may not last, but that does not mean that you should try to get back with your ex, everything looks better when you can look back and just remember the good times and forget the bad, or the irritating things that stood in your way of a great relationship due to incompatibility.....just move on and keep looking for that special girl, she is out there.
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reader, Danielepew  + ♥, writes (10 July 2007):
 You want the sex you had with the previous girl.
If I were you, I would count my current blessings. If you are sure that this girl is better for you, well, don't blow it, man. And I'm sure you can improve on the "chemistry" part. That's what I would do.
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