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writes:Ok . . so In june 31 2010 i got raped ; and i got checked and everything and now im fine . Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months and i Had sex with him on Friday 10/29 , and today again 11/2 and it hurts , it doesnt feel good at all . He would ask me if it was alright and i would say yeah because he seemed to be enjoying himself ; he even asked me if i wanted to stop . But i Want to know . what can i do so that i feel pleasure instead of pain . Because i feel no pleasure at ALL :/ . Im 15 Turning 16 by the way. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): Thats because you too young to be having sex. You should stop trying and just wait until you're older. Much older.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (3 November 2010):
 You need to give yourself time. Stop having sex for now. It is good that your boyfriend is showing concern where most men would selfishly carry on for their own personal pleasure. But you need to cease all sexual activity until you are ready and, by ready, I mean when you are older and you have dealt with the trauma.
See a counselor or a psychiatrist, any professional help will do to help you move on from this pain. It was a terrible thing to go through and you need to deal with it before you can experience pleasure in sex.
I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2010): How about this? you kids wait until you can legally have sex then try it
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