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female
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16-17,
*hdearitserika
writes:My boyfriend and I are getting married next summer. Lately, he's been really flashing his money at me. I've never been used to people spending a lot of money on me, especially since my family has never had very much to spend. I love that he's so supportive and wants to give me everything I want. But, how do I get over this feeling that I'm only with him because of his money? I'm DEFINITELY not; In fact, I'd almost love him more if we didn't have so much. I just don't want other people to see me that way. Is it all just in my head?
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reader, baddogbj  +, writes (1 November 2009):
 As you already know he is just trying to make you happy. If you tell him clearly that he doesn't need to spend money to have you love him then he will love you all the more.
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reader, marieclaire  +, writes (1 November 2009):
 well i'm not going to comment on the idea of getting married at 17 or 18 but you're not a gold digger, obviously! so just be happy that he has the money to spend. you know what it's like not having much so just be grateful that things are different for you now. if other people think that, well let them. the kind of people who think things like that are just gossips. let your relationship prove them wrong
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reader, MinnieM  +, writes (1 November 2009):
Ask him to keep his money for the future and show him he can have a good time with you on a budget and let him know there are other things he can do to impress you!
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