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I feel like my ex-boyfriend is using me for free food!

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Question - (2 November 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 2 November 2009)
A female Russian Federation age 16-17, anonymous writes:

When my ex-boyfriend and I were together, I used to invite him over all the time. He'd eat/take naps at my house and everyone loved him.

Now that we're broken up and I have a new boyfriend, my ex still insists on coming. I let him come over and eat but I feel like he's starting to take advantage of it, use me for free food, and I feel uncomfortable. He even said "wow, if you make sandwiches like that for me everyday, I'll come over all the time" after i made him dinner.

I'm tired of it and it makes me mad.

How can I tell him nicely I don't want him over anymore?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom + , writes (2 November 2009):

Tell him you've moved on, you've got another boyfriend and you would prefer it if he didn't come by uninvited. Also, don't make him any more food.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2009):

Ok, so, say this, "i know weve been through some good times and mayube some bad, but ive moved on, i dont think you should invite yourself over anymore"

try that

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