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writes:Hey, i really need advice,I met a guy online last february, met him and started dating, fell in love with him and all that, got engaged in july just gone, however he lost his job a couple of weeks ago and since then he's been stressed out about how to pay his bills etc i understand that i really do, we made plans to move out and have just been offered a house on our local council list, but since loosing his job he's done nothing but snap at me and we're arguing over little petty things, i feel like i'm loosing him, what can i do???
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reader, O Connor  + ♥, writes (30 January 2008):
 well in losing his job he has lost confidence and taken a blow to his ego - what with men feeling the need to be the breadwinner and that. just give him the emotional support he needs without making him feel like less of a success. he feels like he has failed right now - failed you aswell. just be patient, he will eventually gain more confidence as time goes on, and im sure wen you settle into a new home etc., things will start to look brighter to him.
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reader, Annalisa + ♥, writes (30 January 2008):
 I actually agree with Laura on this one. He must feel like his life is falling apart, so you need to be supportive and show him your love. Say you'll be there for him and give him time. If he's lost his job, he can sign on and get help with his bills, unless you're living together. Most companies are quite understanding about loss of employment and will be able to arrange payment plans. Ask him if he would like your help and advise him as best you can. Be positive and patient, and you'll both be just fine!
God bless you and good luck!
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (30 January 2008):
 Try to give him moral and emotional support .Be more understanding and patient. Try to avoid contentious issues and picked up the slack if you can without criticizing him .
Losing his job can make him lose his confidence and self esteem.
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