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writes:I ended a 3 year relationship in October 06, I didn’t want another boyfriend and plan to go traveling this October. The trouble is I met a guy in December, we dated for a few weeks then we started sleeping with each other, which is all I wanted from a man then. He had just come out of a relationship too and didn’t want anything either so it was perfect. Here’s the trouble, we spend a lot of time together hanging out, going out to dinner and other non-sex related activities. He’s told me he likes me and I’ve told him I do too, I like him a lot, I dated a few people after my ex so I know its not a rebound. I don’t think I want a boyfriend but I’ve got to the point were I care about him and would be jealous if he did anything with another girl (he hasn’t so far.) I feel like I’m in limbo and it’s making me kind of unhappy/uneasy. I’d love to just stop fighting these feelings but I leave the country in October to go traveling for a year so any relationship between now and then is just pointless. Please help!
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reader, cd206 +, writes (22 March 2007):
 One of my best friends is in your guy's position and is absolutely heartbroken about things.
I think you're pretty confused too about what you want so it might be best to take some time apart from him for a while to assess how you really feel. If it's true love he'll be waiting for you when you get back in October 2008 whereas if it's just a passing fling maybe that's not what you want after all?
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