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*ryin2helpu
writes:i know i ask alot of ?'s and im sry but this is reallllly bothering me...ok so i liked this guy... he was a big flirt, and sat with me at lunch and we would chat alot and stuff and text and i thought wow this is great and i was thrilled then he started telling me about this girllll then at lunch he stopped sitting with me and i was crushed (lame i know) and it literally ruined my whole day.... then during 5th period he told me the 'great news' about how he asked her out.... im really hurt becuz i feel like im loosing my friend... he always sits with her and we never talk anymore and its really hurtign me...during 5th he kept asking me wats wrong and i told him nothing and im kinda being immature with the silent treatment but i mean hes really hurting me. i know they cant go out forever but still. he called me to tell me he was gonna ask her out and stuff so i know im just a friend to him but i kinda feel like i had my chance and i blew it because i didnt flirt enough. ughh please help
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reader, tryin2helpu +, writes (27 August 2008):
tryin2helpu is verified as being by the original poster of the question ok sooo... they broke up today becuase he sat with me at lunch and not her... he was really flirty and im falling for him... he doesnt like guurls that complain so im trying to hold it in...
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reader, WiccanWonder  +, writes (27 August 2008):
 Just explain to him, that you felt hurt that he stopped talking to you when he started going out with this girl.
if he is really your friend he will understand. If they break up, make sure your there to talk to him, and maybe you could wait a while (if you still like him) and then ask him out, make sure it is a month or so after they break up, seeing as it might still hurt him to date someone, and it will possibly make you look too eager...
I hope this helps,
Tasha xXx
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