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writes:My life is a mess.I'm 18 at uni and feel like I'm in love with two girls.. One is a 15 year old who liked me previously, and lives at home, but not anymore, but I couldn't because of the age thing, and I cannot stop thinking about her.The other is a girl who I met about a month ago at Uni and has become such an amazing friend to me.. she has just broke up with her boyfriend of 4 years after he cheated on her, and she is so fragile and not even thinking about guys like that right now (obviously).I feel like I can never just be friends with a girl, and it is really getting to me. I also get really uptight about when they speak to me, and always think that they are ignoring me when they aren't ontop of that, Uni life really isn't that great, and I really miss my old life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2007): I truly understand the fact that you love those girls, but you have to try to stop your feelings 4 the 15yr. old child. Haven't you heard, 15 will get u 30, so try your hardest not to let your feelings for her get to her parents. As for the other girl you are right she probably isn't ready to date someone else but dont give up on her let her know that you are there for her but you also think she is someone that you would love to take out. Don't force her and in about 1mo. if she isnt ready to move on and go on a date than she is not interested and you need to move on and find someone else above the legel age and still be her friend. Maybe she might have a friend she could hook you up with.
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