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writes:I have a bit of a problem... last year me and my friend were 15 and we went on holiday to spain, in the resort the drinking age was 16. We met some lads who said they would take us out drinking. After they asked our age my friend said 16, so we just went along with that. They talked about the GCSE's that year and we just blagged it. Anyway I never expected to talk to them again, but I did end up with ones number, and so we talked and msn'd a bit. And then- results day! He wanted to know what I got and I just gave him my predicted grades. So this year we have talked a lot and helped each other out with relationship things and stuff and hes dead nice. Although he lives miles and miles away, but when I talk to him I always feel guilty about lying. Do I tell him or just leave it? I think he would be pretty mad, and I'm probably never gonna see him. What do you guys think? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2009): Well I would have said it was a little white lie, but then it got deeper as you started to lie about other stuff relating to school. If I were in your shoes I would tell him. I'd let him know how sorry I was, and explain WHY, but make it clear it's not an excuse. It's up to you, it's not the worst thing to lie about but the guilt is building up. I'm sure you don't want to keep building your conversations up based on lies.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (1 July 2009):
 You have started a lie so you may aswell just go along with it, its not a big deal. X
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reader, Starlights +, writes (1 July 2009):
 i think u shud admit to him your real age as your feeling guilty.
u probably feel much better once u tell him the truth anyway.
im sure as ur friend he wouldnt be that mad at u, it was a year ago that u saw him anyway.
good luck!!
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