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writes:So my girlfriend and i broke up for her reasons.But some months before that i did the stupidest thing by sexting another girl. I immediately regretted my mistake and the guilt immediately started eating me alive. I woke up in cold sweats and chest pains for a while.I even thought my heart problems were back and went to the hospital. At the beginning of the relationship and at other times she told me she'd rather bad boys and that i'm too good and she likes trouble.But yeah..i hate myself for doing that. And i didn't tell her since she didn't know i thought it bad to hurt by telling her out of the blue. Coming down to the end she really started pushing me away and acting like we weren't even together. And i saw a message with between her and her girl friends in a group where she said we weren't in a relationship around that time the incident happen. I was also only 16 at that time and it was my first relationship.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2015): You've learned a lesson, and it's good that you regret what you did. You will learn from your mistakes; so you'll try to do better the next time.
She's dumb anyway; if she's into bad-boys! If she thinks bad-boys don't cheat, she's in for a great big surprise. They always do!
Don't go doing things to impress dummies who say they like "bad-boys." If you want to keep a girl, let her like you for who you are. Then don't go messing around with other girls once she does like you. They will always find out, whether you admit it or not. It's a small world and people talk. The bad news travels fast, and girls always figure-out when you're a cheater.
You'll feel better sooner than you think. You're really too young to be too deep and serious about relationships. You're just learning what it is to like girls, and dating is new to you anyway.
Hang with your bros for awhile, and just keep a low profile until you feel better.
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