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writes:I'm a 39 yrs of age, a barber and married. I've done 5 years in prison. I moved to sc and met a young lady and as of this year married her. at times I feel as if that's been the biggest mistake of my life. she's very demanding, controlling, and irritable if things don't go her way. it has made me turn to other women and yes I've cheated ample of times. I want to make the marriage work but its hard as hell until I catches myself going to other women for sex and companion. she's kicked me out several times. she's said to me she hates me, calls me jail names, fought me also called the police on me. that's where I would just leave because I'm not trying to go back to jail. please help me on thid
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reader, Renee okc +, writes (11 August 2009):
You need to move on and divorce her, Howe are you helping the situation by constantly cheating on her that's probably why she is treating you so badly. You cannot blame her when you knew your feelings for her had changed before you guy's got married. I don't even really understand why you got married. It is better to be done with her instead of going back and forth to jail and getting into trouble. You need to man up and leave her alone
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (11 August 2009):
 I think your choices are simple enough; Marital counseling or divorce. You either work on the marriage together, which means she has to figure out why she's treating you the way she does, and you have to figure out how to put yourself back into the marriage with out outside "help". You both have to learn how to treat each other with respect and that takes time and work. Old patters are hard to break but once you are aware of them, it just takes practice. I wish you the best.
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reader, Jolin  +, writes (11 August 2009):
 wow... it's like a smack down marriage that you are having now.. fiuuhhh!
Have you two asked the marriage counsellor to solve this problem? Yknow, sometimes involving the 3rd independent & professional person may help to save your marriage.
Hope things go well..
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