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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I get told I'm an attractive girl a lot but have been insecure my whole life, especially when it comes to sex. I can count my sexual partners on one hand. My problem is that the only way I can get aroused and have an O during sex is if I fantasize that my bf is screwing someone else. I actually have to verbalize a whole narrative out loud in order to feel fulfilled. My current bf was quite annoyed with it at first but now he's getting into it. I'm a jealous girl but during sex i give him free reign to fantasize and tell me about who he wants to screw. This turns me on enough and gets me aroused more than anything he can do. Now whenever we have sex he tells me about other women. I'm aroused during but after I feel hurt and guilty. I know I started this but I want to know how I can stop using other women screwing him, to get aroused. I want the sex to be about us again. I'm afraid he will leave me and find someone else since I'm basically throwing other women at him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 June 2011): Just wanted to identify with you cos thats how I get off too! Its okay,and I agree,you have nothing to worry about. Enjoy!
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reader, cupidus  +, writes (12 June 2011):
 You've taken something you enjoy and turned it into a nightmare. Don't go there, you're both enjoying an erotic and imaginative sex life. I doubt he will go looking for another women when he has one that is so giving and exciting and visual and imaginative. He's talking about other women because it pleases you. If you tell him that two bulls getting it on in a corn field turns you on he'd be talking bulls in corn fields.
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