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I fancied a guy then he asked out my friend. Now I fancy another guy and I'm afraid the same thing is going to happen again!

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Question - (18 April 2014) 2 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2014)
A female United Kingdom age 22-25, anonymous writes:

About a year ago I fancied this guy. We flirted for a while but nothing became of it, I didn't tell anyone because I like to keep myself to myself. A. While after he asked out my best friend (there's 3 of us). I was heart broken but after a while I got over it. A year on I fancy this other guy, (my other friend is still going out with the guy I used to fancy) we flirt on and off and I really like him. Like before I haven't told anyone. My other best friend (the third) keeps flirting with him also. I'm afraid that the same thing is going to happen and I don't want to feel like that again. What should I do???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2014):

If all you do is flirt,the boys don't have much to go on.

The other situation happened because the boy probably liked your friend better. He can flirt with as many girls as he likes, but he is only going to ask the girl out that he's more interested in. They're still going strong a year later.

You have to talk to the boy and get his attention. You have to figure out if they really like you; or they are just flirting with you only because you're a girl.

You have to understand that the boys are choosing the girl who isn't too shy to let him know she likes him. Standing around batting your eyes and smiling at him, isn't enough.

Walk up to the boy and chat. Make him laugh and carry on a conversation with him. If he feels comfortable with you, he will ask you out.

If you act too shy or standoffish; he will think you will turn him down, if he asked you out.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2014):

Either tell him or move on because it may well happen if he doesn't know you like him.

The other thing is that you need to remember that this happens quite often at your age and, if a similar thing happens again, you will move on - just like last time. So try to relax about it and not invest in boys too much until you're older.

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