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I enjoy deep penetration but my boyfriend is not very gifted lengthwise. What can be done?

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Question - (23 August 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 22 September 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi everyone.

Well one of my favourite things in bed is to be penetrated really deeply... And my boyfriend is, well, not exactly gifted in the size department. I really love him and he is desperate to please me, but the only ways we can do it is if he uses his hand, or if I use a toy. Can anything be done about this?!

Thanks!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2008):

You can have mine. He is too big.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2008):

Dear Poster

I noticed there is some difficulty in opening the link; I copied the appropriate part for you.

Tips & techniques

Tips for great sex with small penises

One of men’s greatest fears about their penises is that they’re not big enough. For some men it doesn’t matter how big it is, it will never be big enough. The truth is that for most men size is more an ego issue than anything else.

It’s vital to be aware of the fact that sex is not only about penetration, there is so much more to enjoy and explore. We are all ‘whole-body’ beings. The deepest and most satisfying experiences include all of ourselves, not just our genitals.

There has been such a focus in the media on orgasms that we take that to be the goal of sex. But it’s not a goal-directed act. Sex and sensuality are about love, pleasure, exploring, excitement. Orgasms are great, but there’s more!

It’s also important to note that very few women actually have orgasms through sheer penetration.

Techniques

Techniques that focus on oral stimulation, genital massage, expanded orgasm etc can bring enormous satisfaction, deep pleasure and orgasms.

One of the most amazing sensations is to be found in rubbing the head of your penis, lots of lubricant, on her clitoris. It feels totally different to a finger or tongue.

Different positions will also allow for different internal sensations. Rear-penetration such as ‘doggy’, woman on top, woman on her back, legs over her shoulders will give some very cool sensations, almost regardless the size of a penis.

Best wishes and lots of SMILES

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (23 August 2008):

DoubleM agony auntI'm sure you know that a couple of positions facilitate a slightly deeper penetration, such as "doggie" style and cowgirl (woman-on-top) depending upon your position. Another that goes deep is difficult to describe with words, but I'll try. You lay back on your side and hike one leg upward, really high. He straddles the other leg and approaches more or less from a 90 degree angle. Hard to explain. And of course, you can lay back and spread widely while basically doubling up with your legs up over your head. Grab behind your knees and pull. How can your vagina be more open? He could also try the previously mentioned 90 degree angle to gain a slightly deeper thrust. But with whatever he has, thrusting all the way and doing what has long been known as the "grind" might help. And if you suck him up for awhile prior to vaginal penetration, his erection should reach the max. Anyway, pleasing you should be no problem with cunnilingus.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2008):

Dear Poster

Herwith a link that I think with lots of information that I think might be usefull.

Tips for great sex with small penises

http://health.mweb.co.za/sex/Tips_techniques/1253-1254,32484.aspes.

Hope it is of assistance.

Enjoy, have fun.

Best wishes and SMILES.

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