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I ended my relationship...why did he leave it 5 days to come back to tell me he loved me?

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Question - (30 September 2006) 4 Answers - (Newest, 2 May 2007)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

I ended my relationship with my boyfriend because it was going stale.The problem is,he has been txting me to see him again and iv nearly given in,he says he loves me but what i dont understand is,if he wanted me back that much then why does he leave it for 5 days then contact me again? it sounds like im a after thought and he's just using me as a gap filler.Shall i just forget him?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2007):

If you really love him you should take the time to find out why he is leaving and coming back every five days. He says he loves you, therefore you and him should be able to express you all's feelings. It is usually harder for a man, they are not as affectionate as females but when they began to become affectionate they put there all into it. maybe you need to show him that you need him. Guys love to be needed. Maybe he needs space. Guys don't like to be crowded. Let him miss you a bit. It is hard. It leaves you thinking the worst. If you know his character you can get pass the thoughts of him possibly cheating on you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2006):

thats not long relax hes a guy it takes longer for him to figure out what he wants give the guy a chance

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A female reader, Toria +, writes (1 October 2006):

Toria agony auntMaybe he needed time to realise what you really mean't to him, or time to get over the fact you ended the relationship, or just plain stubborn.

5 days really isn't a long time to spend apart before trying to make the relationship work, when I was with my ex he use to leave it over a week before he contacted me to get back together didn't mean he didn't love me or anything just some of us don't like to leave something like this and others need to.

Hope this helps :o)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2006):

I am confused, you ended your relationship because it was going stale, and now you are worried you are just a gap filler...5 days is hardly a gap at all....sounds to me like you are not all that intersted in him and are using him as a gap filler? He probably waited awhile because you rejected him.

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