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I dumped my abusive ex. So why is he back, texting me how much he loves me?

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Question - (28 July 2005) 3 Answers - (Newest, 30 July 2005)
A female , anonymous writes:

I split from my ex over 18 months ago. He was abusive and I couldnt take it any more. Him putting me in hospital was the final straw.

Now I'm recieving email and text messages from him telling me how much he loves me and wants me back. I'm under a lot of stress as it is, so why is he doing this to me? I feel like I'm almost at breaking point. Someone Please HELP!!!!!!

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A female reader, Anastasia Trinidad and Tobago +, writes (30 July 2005):

Anastasia agony auntI agree with the two other aunties..stay away from this guy. Abuse is something that should never be tolerated. He put you in hospital. He isn't going to stop abusing you if you get back together and I know you won't do that ..you are a smart girl to not do that right?! Tell someone in your family that he is contacting you..heck tell the police...that way if anything happens to you..God forbid..they know who to look for. Hun this is something really serious..don't take this lightly. Be aware of your surroundings when you walk out and stuff. Most abusive guys tend to be possessive and extremely jealous. Be careful okay...ana

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A reader, becky05 +, writes (29 July 2005):

Hes doing it because he cant face the fact that he has lost you and you dont want him any more.

Change your phone number and e-mail and stay away from this dangerous man.

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A female reader, Mizz-Experienced +, writes (28 July 2005):

The reason why your ex is bothering you and asking you if you can take him back as he probably thought "I have been abusing her for so long and she didn't say anything for a while she is too scared to say NO" I think you should tell someone, maybe in you family or even the authorities. In the end I hope you do the thing that is right for you and don't get bullied or pressurised into to making your decision.

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