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writes:i dumped my boyfriend a week ago because his mates were saying he was 2 timing me. i didnt belive them as he told me he wasn't and i knew he wasn't anyway.now i feel really bad and want him back so i asked him out again but he said no and now i really regret dumping him in the first place. what should i do and how can i get him back? please help me! i love him. Reply to this Question
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reader, Sadi +, writes (22 February 2007):
 Wow hun.. Okay let me start off by sayig .. your friends, and your boyfriend are two WAY different things,,,
What would you do if the tables were turned? How would you feel if he did the same to you? There are a type of friends who will act like there your friend, but there really not, and there jelouse at what you got, so they will try to destroy it, and convince you otherwhys....
First tell him that you had no right taking there side over his, and that you love him, and learned your leason.. And then NEVER do this again.... Then give him his space... If its meant to be, you let him go, and if its true love, he will come back.. All I can say is, is that people learn from there mistakes, and im sorry things ended up the way they did...
-Good luck...
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reader, AskEve +, writes (21 February 2007):
 Oooooh you should never have taken your friend's word over his!!! You should have talked it over with him and told him about the rumours you'd heard first, that way you might have been able to sort it out.
Now he's hurting and feeling you didn't trust him. Give him the space he needs right now to get his head around all of this. Don't text him back or contact him, just let the dust settle. He knows you want to get back with him so let him think about it. If he does want to get back with you, he'll get in contact.
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reader, cd206 +, writes (21 February 2007):
 He's really hurt right now that you would take someone else's word over him and believe he could do something so horrible in the first place. If he won't speak to you write him a letter saying how much you regret what happened and you hope he can forgive you some day because you love him now and always will. Then give him the time and space he needs to see he misses you.
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