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I dreamed about having sex with a much older man. I am afraid this means future promiscous behaviour?!

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Question - (8 December 2007) 12 Answers - (Newest, 6 April 2008)
A female Ireland age 13-15, anonymous writes:

Oh My God! I am 14 and last night i had a dream. I dreamt i was having sex with someone much older than me, and it was very raunchy. I'm scared that this means i'm going to turn into a slut! why would i have this dream, i've never had a dream like that before. especially not about a much older man that i know! what is wrong with me?

please someone tell me why i had a dream like that.

thank you anyone.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008):

nothing wrong with it just your attracted to them rather than younger man its not a father figure its just the experience that they have like making love. like young man are leaning as well as you. but a older man experience teach you to be a woman in a young age open minded and mature.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008):

Dreams do have meanings. But as I learnt recently, that we should let the dream resonate with us and we'll figure out if it makes any sense in our lives. There, we'd be able to ask, "where does this fit in?" If it doesn't, then it was simply our imaginations at work while the bodies were resting. Chill, dear, as everyone said, "it was just a dream And we decide our future behavior." Know that!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks for your advice people.

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A male reader, bazookabob United Kingdom +, writes (26 December 2007):

bazookabob agony auntWhats wrong with being a slut sorry? Lol, i wouldn't worry about your dreams- all kind of things happen in them!

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A female reader, nat.d.82 United Kingdom +, writes (18 December 2007):

dont be freeked out everyone has sex dreams of all natures this perticular dream does not mean you are going to be a slut a sex dream can be triggered off by anything slightly erousing even a small picture of a breast it sounds wierd but its true and i dont know why i know that but i do and as for the much older man it could have been anyones face that persons face just so happened to be on your mind at tghe time the best advice i can give you is shrug it off because you will laugh about it for many years to come

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A male reader, jm81690 Canada +, writes (8 December 2007):

jm81690 agony auntI've had some really messed up dreams that made me feel gross the next day, it's just a dream nothing more.

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States + , writes (8 December 2007):

TasteofIndia agony auntDreams are dreams, sweetness. I've had the most bizarre sex dreams. I've done it with Drew Carey (??!!), Alex Trebek, old guys, fat guys, skinny guys, muscle-y guys....

It means nothing. Means that you have some fun dreams at night. Will you be a "slut"? You don't have to be. That depends on the choices you make in life, not what you dream about.

Enjoy the dreams sweetness!

xxIndia

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (8 December 2007):

Jamer70 agony auntits only a dream. We cant control our dreams. But you can control your future behaviour. Its your life and you control how you behave. Good luck

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2007):

It was a dream. You seem really worried about this which shows that you do not want to be like the you in your dream. So it unlikely that you will turn into a 'slut' as you said.

Don't worry about it. Dreams don't usually come true (well not in my case anyway!) so you should be fine.

You are the only one who can dictate your future so I think you are safe!

Keep enjoying life. Let this memory fade.

Smile! =]

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A female reader, hello1 United Kingdom +, writes (8 December 2007):

hello1 agony auntIt's just a dream! I watched this film, a man in it not very goodlooking but he had a scottish accent which I love, I dreamnt I had sex with him. I never would in real life, but a dream is just a dream!!!

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A female reader, baby duck United States + , writes (8 December 2007):

baby duck agony auntThere are no simple answers with dreams. Your dream did not indicate that there is anything wrong with you.

Your choices determine your behavior, not your dreams.

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A male reader, rcn United States + , writes (8 December 2007):

rcn agony auntIt only means you had a dream. It doesn't determine your behaviors by having dreams.

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