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writes: hi i am fourteen year old girl that has a really reall big crush on a 16 year old boy whilst going out with a 17 year old bot it is so confusing but i dont know wat to do. i really like ths lad but i dont want me and my boyfriend to split every time we see the lad i sit staring at him and my bf always asks me what i am looking at i think he has worked it out but doesnt say nothing does any one have any advice thanx xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2006): Hey anonymous
Best thing to think about when you are in any difficult situation in life is to treat others how you would like to be treated. If you have a crush on another boy, the right thing to do in this situation would be to break up with your boyfriend.
If things were to happen with this crush, but you hadn't broken up with your boyfriend, imagine how he would feel if he found out; imagine how you'd feel knowing you had cheated on him - that kind of stuff stays with you for a long time and at your early age you don't want that kind of emotional baggage.
Good luck with things, I'm sure you'll decide what's best for you and the other people involved!
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (2 June 2006):
 Finish with current boyfriend and start seeing new fella, you are at the early stages of dating and so being tied down is not a good idea, if you like this lad then do something about it.
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