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writes:hii want to tell my gf bout my sister and why is she in prison she got sent down for murder but she didnt kill her so how i gonna prove that to her that my sister is not a murderer i dont want lose my gf over this and i want her be supportive to me while she in inside
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reader, JaffaZ  +, writes (21 October 2007):
 I think you should be honest with your girlfriend - let her know as soon as possible. The longer you keep something from her, the less likely it'll be that she'll forgive you for keeping it a secret from her. Try starting off by telling her what a great person your sister is. Maybe share some great memories you have of her, and let your gf build up in her mind a positive image of your sister. When you think she genuinely believes your she is a good person, tell her that your sister has been wrongly accused of something, and then go from there.
That's just my opinion though...
Good luck!
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reader, rcn  + ♥, writes (21 October 2007):
 First, sorry to hear about your sister. When things like that happen, the whole family stands trial and not the accused. We've been through that here. My brother just got out, and was only in for a few years, but 14 years probation. His son, not really understanding what happened, is now 13, 10 when it happened. Six months after his dad got out, himself now has an assault & battery charge, and just received a possession of narcotics. I blame a lot of this on his dad being taken away on false charges as well, and his son not understanding.
All you can really do is let her know. It's not you who's there, it's your sister. I think if she really likes you, you won't loose her over the accusations against your sister.
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reader, dapone 1 +, writes (21 October 2007):
 Dear Anon
I dont now why you believe that anything your sister has done will affect your relationship with your girlfriend,if she loves you then there should not be a problem, all you have to say is your sister is in prison, if she decides she can not handle that then she can not love you,if she does not love you then you are better of without her, but if she is related in any way to the person who died then she will leave you any way.
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reader, angelbabe +, writes (21 October 2007):
 Well this is the best way to find it if she is a supportive and down for you girlfriend, If she likes you im sure she won't leave you because of your sister.
best of luck,
Xx angelbabe xX
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