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writes:There is a guy i have known for years and recently we have fallen for each other and and been sleeping together. My parents like him but i don't know how to tell them that i am not a virgin and have been sleeping with this guy. Im sure my mum suspects as everytime i go to see him, she asks, "so did u sleep wiv him?" i keep sayin no but i dnt want to lie to her anymore, but i also dont want her to hate me. What should i do??? Please help me! Reply to this Question |
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reader, jay12toes  +, writes (24 April 2009):
 You need to just sit her down and have a grown up conversation about it. She might get a little upset but its better then lying to her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni no it is not reli her business but i have never lied to my mum before. i want to be able to tell her everything but im scared that she will be anrgy that i lied or she will try to stop me seein the guy i have been sleeping with. i love him more than any guy before in my life and i dont want to jepordise this but then again i dont want to lie to my mum. how can i tell her im not a vigin without hurtin her or risk losin the love of my life????
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reader, The Gentle Man +, writes (19 April 2009):
 Since when is your sex life part of your mums business ?
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reader, jay12toes +, writes (18 April 2009):
I dont think your mom will hate you, just sit her down and talk to her.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (18 April 2009):
 Your sex life is non of her business! As long as you are using protection then you are perfectly safe and she doesn't need to know any different. When she asks you next just say that your sex life is personal and its non of her concern, you shouldn't have to tell her! X
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