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writes: me and my boyfriend have been goin out for a while now, but i think we need to spice things up i only get to see him a couple of times a week and we just watch tv or go to the pub now and again (which i cant drink in cos im 17) curling up is lovely and we have a good relationship. i just need suggestions on what to do i dont want to bore him. thanx xx Reply to this Question |
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reader, Irish49  + ♥, writes (12 November 2006):
 Has he ever told you he's bored? Or is this just your assumption, dear? Just remember, a long term relationship takes committment, patience and understanding and it's about 'what WE can do together to keep the spark going'. It's not just about what YOU should be doing to keep your fellow from being bored. Half of the responsibility to keep the love strong, alive and going, is up to him as well. Communication is important. See how he feels and maybe both of you can explore new, exciting ways to get that spark back. But don't ever, ever feel this is just your job. He contributes to this relationship, too, dear.
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (12 November 2006):
 its only a suggestion but you could always try pretenting you dont know each other meeting up in the pub and chatting each other up, or you could try going bowling or sexy underwear and toys it really depends on what type of people you are and what you enjoy doing it is a good idea to try and spice it up abit though as neither of you want to get bored.
have fun
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