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I don't want to be romantic with a boy who likes me, I just want to get dirty with him!

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Question - (27 February 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 27 February 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So this boy likes me but I think I just like him because I want someone to make out with and have fun with.

I've known this boy since middle school and he liked me in middle school too but I NEVER even thought of liking him.

Now we're in high school and we've been starting to hang out alot (I haven't seen him in a couple of years)

I'm pretty sure he likes me.

I'm don't think I like him though but I do know that I want to make out with him behind his pick up truck and do dirty stuff with him :/

I don't know what to do. Should I just make out with him and see if it takes us anywhere?

What if it doesn't work and I just want to make out with him ... ?

I know it's not fair to him but I just really want someone to fool around with.

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A female reader, everlastinglove United States +, writes (27 February 2010):

im not sure where you were plannign to get inimate with him but ask him over for a study date and then after studying for a while ask him if hes hungry make sure he says yes then say something hot like i wasnt talking about food and just climb onto him and start kissing him. Make sure your on birth control or have a condom handy. just in case if he pushes you off then stop and say something like sorry i just could resist you just so hot. If you do get to third base then after dont spend to much time together after words just say you should probably go now before we get caught of something like that. then he wont be able to stop thinking about you and odds are he would think of you as a girlfriend but more of a play friend. and just keep inviting him over for idk what ever. if you do want to result in a relationship just send time after hope this helps good luck. (dont get pregnant it will screw up EVERYTHING)

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (27 February 2010):

rcn agony auntI'm not going to state what you should do, because I won't be an adult figure giving you "getting dirty" advice, where you're parents may not extend such advice. I will answer this in general terms as far as where you said it'd would be fair to him.

Ask yourself this. If you were to talk first, both be on the same page of what to expect, without misleading the other, can it then be a fair agreement between two people?

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A male reader, Vickidude India +, writes (27 February 2010):

Vickidude agony auntI bet that 90% of guys would be fine with it lol

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