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writes:I've fallen in love with a girl who is 20 and i am 17 and she loves me too. I dont think there is anything wrong with this even tho she is older then me but other people do think there is somthing wrong with it somtimes. Do you thnik this is a good idea because i don't want to be harassed because of the age difference but at the same time i dont care what ppl say. What do you think?? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2008): nothing wrong here atall - good luck 2u, i'm 18 &in love with 13yrold guy& i know nothing can ever happen, ifonly we'd met 10 years later
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): I'm in a 12 year age gap relationship-3 years should be just fine. True, some may comment because you're the younger one and it goes against "social norm" but who cares!? As long as it works for you...
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): 3years is nothing speacially when your 17. Who cares what people think. they need to grow up!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): 3 years is nothing honey. My boyfriend is 2 years older, and for a while we got harrassed quite a lot, almost to the point of breaking, but we carried on and I'm so pleased that we did. Don't let anyone tell you it's too big, or wrong, it's all personal opinion. If you love her, date her. Forget her age. (As long as she is not, like, 15 years younger haha) Good luck :]
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2008): Age is never a problem with me, and besides you are only 3 years younger, my bloke is 2 years younger than me, so what. Enjoy what you have and stop worrying about what others have to say, they are not you.
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reader, maddierose  +, writes (10 February 2008):
 There is absolutely nothing wrong with this in my opinion. People say it sounds weird because it's an older woman and a younger man. But if we change the roles for a second, I doubt people would object to a 20 year old man and a 17 year old woman! So just because it's 3 years differnce in the other way, doesn't mean people should look at it any diffterently. Think about it. If you stay together until your 25, she'll be 28! Nobody would think twice about that would they?Don't worry about it! I don't think there is anything wrong with it. Especially compared to the amount of 15 year age gap questions there are, its refreshing to hear such a small gap! Good luck, I hope you don't get too much trouble!
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