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I don't want my sister to date my ex!

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Question - (26 April 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 26 April 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I really need advice. My problem: My sister is constantly texting my ex-boyfriend and hanging out with him. People that don't even know them or me have come up and asked me if they are dating. It's really awkward for me.

Plus, one of my friends is ok friends with him, not close or anything, but I asked her why he is always texting and trying to hang out with her, and she said that he expects to date her!

I confronted my sister and told her that it's really uncomfortable for me. She said she doesn't like him, but I don't know if I believe her 100%. I asked her to talk to him, and tell him she didn't like him (because that's what she told me) so that he wouldn't be lead on. I don't think she said anything to him.

I'm just so lost, embarassed, and confused. No one is taking this issue seriously. I only dated him a short while (around a month--I dumped him), but to me, it doesn't matter how long you date a guy--one day, a week, a month, a year: he's off limits to friends and siblings. I would never date my friend's exes--let alone my own sister's! Please help me out! What should I do?

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (26 April 2010):

CindyCares agony auntNormally I would totally agree with you- you don't date your friends and sisters exes. But in your case, to tell you the truth it does not sounds like such a major infraction.

You are 16. You dated him for one month. You dumped him. It was more like a passing fancy than a relationship.

Anyway , probably you do not need to worry. You alreday talked to your sister, explained her what you feel, - and she does not even like the guy. I agreee that it 's better if she nips this situation in the bud, but maybe she has not got the nerve. Not a big problem. If he asks her out, she will say no.

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