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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I am 7 months pregnant, and I am in a lesbian relationship with a girl that I have been best friends with for 8 years. We met online, and have never met in person. She just got out of a 4 year relationship. I have very low self esteem and I am very insecure. Our relationship is still new, and the funny thing is she has NEVER given me a reason to doubt her. She is constantly telling me how amazing I am, and how much she loves me, and how she wants to be with me forever. But for some reason I just can't shed this jealousy. I get jealous of ridiculous things, like her staff at her job where she is a manager, or her STRAIGHT christian friend, or her ex girlfriend who turned straight. She has a lot of baggage and has WAY more respect for me than this, and my heart knows this, but my anxiety will not let this jealousy rest. How do i have confidence in someone I have trusted for 8 years, even though the only thing that has changed is our titles for eachother? We trusted eachother 150% for 8 years, and now that we are together it's like we don't even know each other we're so petrified that one of us is going to leave the other, when in all actuality neither of us is going anywhere. I don't want jealousy ruining the one thing I have wanted for 8 years! please someone help!
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reader, eddie  +, writes (7 July 2007):
 What are you saying here? You said you've never met in person??????????? If you've never met i person, the relationship you have is really not a partnership. It's a pen pal. Don't get them confused. How can you sit around and worry about someone you've never met in person? How can you leave someone you've never been with?
I need more information. Why haven't you met?
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