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I dont want him treating me like dirt

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Question - (9 December 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 December 2006)
A female , *lamgirl writes:

My ex boyfriend recently broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I was really heart broken I find hard to cope sometimes, I miss him so much.

he broke up with me because he felt things were not the same as they used to be and he feels as if hes growing up too fast( we are 16 ). he told me he loves me and always will, and he says that he thinks we will get back together in a couple of months time which confused me. I really want to get back together with him because I really love him but if he asks me back out Iam not sure if I should say yes because I dont want him treating me like dirt. what should I do ?

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A female reader, Sally R. Cinnamon +, writes (9 December 2006):

Sally R. Cinnamon agony auntGlamgirl,

From what you say it is impossible to tell if your boyfriend is badly treating you or not.

If he is telling the truth, and just needed a break and some time to himself because he is worried about the speed of the relationship, then he is not treating you like dirt at all. He is being respectful to himself and giving himself the space he needs in order that the relationship will work. Sometimes breaking up for a little while is the best thing to do.

It depends on his reasons for breaking up, if this becomes frequent, and if he does it to see other girls. You will only find out if you go out with him again. So I would give him the benefit of the doubt this time, but beware of falling into a rollercoaster relationship in the long run which wouldn't be fair to you.

-Sally

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2006):

this happened to me i was heartbroken, what my ex-boyfriend did was that he broke up with me just to sleep with someone else and then come back to me but i sed no i told him straight even tho i still loved him and it hurt me sooo much to say no but we all deserve to be treated fair not lyk dirt so i stud up 4 myself but if u love him that much and willing to give him another chance then do i cnt force you to do enthing u dnt want to do

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