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writes: I've been with my girlfiend for 2 1/2 years and she is by far the best friend i've ever had. However i don't have feelings for her the way I used to and don't think she's the one for me. What should I do? I still think she's totally in love with me.
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reader, luvaofsoul +, writes (9 November 2006):
I think you must tell her.
Its better to be cruel to her now, cause it would be king to her latter.
the one major advice i have, is to be honest in responding to any question she asks, thats the one thing that will help her to get over you
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reader, Westie +, writes (26 October 2006):
I think you should tell her. Be honest with her, if you carry the relationship on it will just get worse and worse. If you do not have feelings for her you need to tell her straight because you will just be lying to her. You need to both be in love otherwise it just won't work out for you both. She will be upset but she needs to know at least, because if you just carry on the relationship but with not the same attitude as you had when you first met she is going to realise that something is wrong and jump to the wrong conclusions. So i think you should tell her.
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reader, ariel  + ♥, writes (26 October 2006):
 If she is not ticking all your boxes then you need to inform her.Dumping the person you thought you loved is hard,I think harder than being dumped.It sucks big time,specially when they don't see it coming.
But you can't go on putting up a farce,if its not what you are feeling.Don't make the mistake that a lot of people make and think it will get better,because it won't.Then before you know it you are marching down the isle.
Work out why you don't have feelings anymore because she is going to ask you WHY? Have you heard of phases in a relationship? It could be that now you have to work a little bit harder to stoke the fire as to speak.
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