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writes:i'm 19yr old woman. i dont moan during sex, i never have, i never will, i think its silly, my boyfriend said ''its a turn on when women moan'' but i just cant and he is totally against faking it. so what do i do? any suggestions? Reply to this Question |
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2007): hahaha i have to bite my thumb symptoms if i cant moan for wotever reason i get bite marks for like 2dayz haha. dunno how its silly not only duz it turn the lad on but it turns u on cos he gives it better ;) xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2007): okay... you can replace moaning (though its not silly, its hot - im male, can you tell?)... anyway... replace it with whispering little things in his ear that are... lets just say enticing... then you both win because he will be too busy worrying about his own performance, however he is still getting that vocal feedback that he craves...
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reader, TasteofIndia  + ♥, writes (30 April 2007):
 Sweetness, where do you get this idea that moaning is silly?
You can make other noise. Just relax and let your body breathe out of your mouth... let yourself make whatever noises come naturally. I can't help BUT moan... if I'm trying to be quiet, I have to make an active effort.
Do you quiet yourself in the bedroom? Or do you just not feel anything to make noise about? You don't even have to open your mouth, just hum inside of your mouth. "Mmmmm...", like after you take a bite of delicious cake.
It's a turn on for your boyfriend because it lets him know that you're enjoying yourself. If you're silent, he's probably wondering if you're having fun or just waiting for him to finish. It's sexy when a woman shows that she's having fun and loving it. As long as you're making any sort of noise (it doesn't need to be moaning, maybe talking "oh yeah, that feels good...", etc.), it will reaffirm with him that you're having fun.
I don't think you have to fake it, I think you just need to allow yourself to open up a little. It might feel forced at first, but once you get into it, sounds will come pouring out of you. Sex isn't meant to be silently done... it's meant to be wild and noisy and a blast!
Any sort of noise, I think will do.
Good luck, sweetness. Have FUN! Lots and lots of fun.
xxIndia
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