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*hilippa
writes: Im 27and I have been with my boyfriend (29 yrs old) for 11 years and we have 7 year old twin boys together .I don't love him anymore . Im actualy starting to hate him .He never made me happy ,never tried and never will .The kids are starting to feel tit too. I really have the desire of cheating cause I feel like im wasting my time hopping for something that will never happen.I tried everyting I can .What's the big deal if I cheat on him ? Life is too short to be wasting precious years of life .Im a great mother , he is a great father ,but I think we are bad together .The thing is that he's possesive and can't let me go and he will not do anything to make me happy .So why not cheat if I can ? I would like to feel good for once . Reply to this Question
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reader, Serpico  +, writes (28 July 2010):
Sorry - have to be Captain Obvious here but -
Ok - whats wrong with this two statements?
"we have 7 year old twin boys together"
"He never made me happy ,never tried and never will"
In the name of all that is holy, if you are with a man who doesnt ever make you happy, unmarried to him at that, WHY ARE YOU CHOOSING TO HAVE CHILDREN WITH HIM?
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reader, sbxo  +, writes (28 July 2010):
 Cheating is never the answer. You need to tell him how you feel, shout if you have to! Make him listen to what you have to say. This isn't good for your children either, they've obviously started to notice how your feeling. Speak to your children about it aswell to reassure them. If you don't love him anymore then why are you with him? Obviously there is a long history between you both and it will be hard to throw it all away. Everytime you look at your children you will see him and yes it will be very hard but it all comes down to whats best for your family right?
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