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I don't know whether to believe what he's saying or not... Help!

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Question - (7 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 June 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay so it has been since 2 weeks i have known this guy. First of all we agree that this was just for fun. It has nothing to do with serious meeting it was more like fun type. Then i started to talk to his guy, we pretty much got together talking all the time and talking every day basically. I thought it was going too fast but it was just for fun but once i realized i am falling for him it wasnt cool. We swap the phone numbers, i called him but hung up without saying hi AND SOON it lead to facebook and being in a relationship.

I thought this was where we suppose to stand. And we havent met each other cause of me. He asked me out i think 4 times saying i am soooooo taking you out. I feel like he does like me and love me but how do i know for sure he does? He also says we are kinda going fast but im cool with that like what is that supposed to mean? He says he Loves me and that he fell hard for me. How would i know if this is for real? Please tell me what to do? I dont know if i should just forget about him and move on or do something with it.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (9 June 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntThat is virtual love and not real love.You have become his extension of his imaginary love online.

It could lead to real love ,provided you meet in real life.If you are not interested, just move on.

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A female reader, BunnyTee United States +, writes (9 June 2010):

BunnyTee agony auntTWO WEEKS and it's a relationship though you've never met? How on earth do you love someone you've never met and don't have the nerve to speak to over the phone? "Kinda going fast" how?

He loves you and fell hard for you? In this same long term relationship of 2 weeks? This makes absolutely no sense in the real world, at all. So no, I don't believe this is real in any way.

What should you do? You should figure it out, girl. Deal in the REAL world. There is NO such thing as "fall hard" and "love someone you've never met" and "he loves you" blah, blah blah in two whole weeks. Get a good grasp of reality and try it again.

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