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male
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:I don't know if I really love my girlfriend anymore.It's simple as that, I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 6 months now and for the most part it's been long distance. I am her first boyfriend and shes a little I don't know how to say it I guess mature for her age, shes nearly 18, and she doesn't drink, party, go out to have fun, doesn't want to come visit me because she has homework, and I only go to school about 45 min away, once a week I try to visit her but she never makes an effort to see me. In a way she can be I guess to immature? As a teen through highschool she was never really the msot popular girl, got made fun of and stuff and I have showen her alot of support and caring love. But I don't feel for her anymore it's more just looks then anything else and everytime I try to see through the looks like I used to; but her personality is just not my type... I have come to that conclusion.Alot of her friends tell me that she doesn't realize how lucky she is to have a guy as experienced in relationships as me and litterally pampering her. To be honest and I know it sounds harsh but I am tired of always making every decision in the relationship, and making all the effort I think it would be best for some douchbag teenage boy to whip her into shape, and make her realize she can't let the guy make all the decisions.I am thinking on breaking up with her I just don't know how I should say it... it would really break her heart. Should I try even harder, I kinda want to and just stick it out wait until shes at least 19 and graduated highschool, but it's super frustrating when I go to university and there are so many awesome girls.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2009): You need to move on, and find you somebody who understands you a little Better. Maybe she's just not the one 4 you. Take sometime to sit her down and talk about you're relationship. Unless you still love her then stay and work it out.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (26 September 2009):
 You're both young and have your whole life ahead of you. She'll bounce back. It doesn't sound like the two of you have alot in common, and this is a difficult time for people to have a relationship. Since you haven't been involved that long, I see no reason for you to keep pretending you are happy. Let her down gently, but move on.
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