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22-25,
anonymous
writes:i've known this guy for close to 2 years (he's 2 years older than me), i knew him through my primary school's alumni association and i think i like him... i'm not 100% sure of my feelings for him. recently i told my best friends that i like him but now idk. we regularly meet up to discuss alumni projects and sometimes he does talk to me about other personal matters (both his and mine) . i'm not sure if this means he actually cares for me and likes me especially since he has a lot of female friends and might just be nice to all his friends in general. i'm so confused because sometimes i feel like he is flirting with me but sometimes i feel like he isn't. do I have feelings for him? what should i do?
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (14 November 2017):
 Did you write this same question a couple off days ago in the age 13-15 bracket? If it was you then my advice will still stand at your age two years is a huge gap and it does sound like you and him are simply just friends. He could get in trouble for dating you if you are underage.
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reader, femmenoir  +, writes (13 November 2017):
 What's crucial here is that, you must first know how YOU FEEL.
If you don't even know how you truly feel about this guy, then you can't expect anything from him.
He may like you, he may not, but again, you are so confused and this comes across within your post.
No need to rush. You're so young and the world is your oyster.
You've so much time up your sleeve for a future relationship or relationships.
Take one day at a time, continue to pursue all of your dreams and in the meantime, if you do meet the RIGHT PERSON, YOU WILL KNOW and you won't need to ever question your feelings.
Best of luck!
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (11 November 2017):
 If you you aren't sure then let it go. You will know when you want to be with somebody. Wild horses wouldn't keep you apart. You and he are just friends, and that's OK. Please don't go trying to make it into something more than it is.
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